FortKnox's Journal: Pixie

Don't you hate it when you setup a journal and turn off responses because you got flooded by advice for people who have NO IDEA what type of situation you are (well, the have an idea, but its a one sided story in a situation very very few have actually been through) in last time and didn't want to go through it again?

Yeah, I have some advice I'd give, but you turned off comments, so I'll keep it to myself. I wish you and your husband the best and hope the others can take a hint.

that's very kind of you.

[SolemnDragon]

i, however, lack such grace, so i'll salute yours and say that my lack of discretion came from sincere goodwill, and wish i'd thought of that. I'll let it stand in the hope she sees it anyway (because i meant it) but perhaps such sense will get the better of me next time...

*creeps abashed back into my corner*

Sorry, pix, if i offended you...

Re:that's very kind of you.

[FortKnox]

Not to point any fingers, I just get so aggravated that people are already telling her to abandon her marriage on a one-sided story.

But I'm already going against my own JE (shoulda disabled comments), so hopefully she won't read inside...

Re:that's very kind of you.

[Some Woman]

I think 1, maybe 2 people actually said that.

Most of the responses, including mine, stayed clear of disbursing actual advice.

Re:that's very kind of you.

[kesuki]

yeah i agree it is annoying that people tell her to ditch him, she made a promise and wants to try her best :p i was trying to help her see that maybe, she isn't trying her best..