I hate it when people don't enable comments, so I have to make a whole JE post just to reply.
I'm replying to this entry (BTW - if you enable comments, I'll remove this JE, then post it as a comment).
One thing I can tell you as a father of both a son and daughter is that boys bond with their mothers, and girls bond with their fathers. Yeah, you expect to be the one that's detached from the situation. Maybe you'll end up with a tomboy because you don't do the girly things. The one that will stand as far away from the pink clothes as possible. You probably have younger sisters and don't want anything to do with them. But when that child is born and gets old enough to interact with you, there isn't a single thing she will do wrong in your eyes. You will come back to that JE and laugh at how you thought it was going to be. Cause every single parent you meet will be sure to tell you "I expected things to change a little. I never expected everything in my life to change as much as it did."
Just wait and see....