Journal aridhol's Journal: Single 2
After a series of text messages today, I'm single.
As I mentioned before, it's been rocky. Well, after two weeks of being ignored, not being called back, and generally avoided, I sent her a message pretty much saying wtf? She responded telling me to leave her alone. Then we exchanged messages discussing how and when we'll return each others' stuff.
I can't believe I used text messages to do it. It makes it feel even worse now, like I couldn't do it to her face. Although I tried for a while to talk with her and sit down and have a face-to-face, it wasn't happening.
This is just the tail end of what happened. There's more that's been happening since July, but I haven't been here. Maybe I'll write it here later, but I'm not in the mood to go through it all again right now.
Bummer. (Score:2)
Sometimes these things happen. If she wasn't willing to sit down it was not your fault. You made the effort and she practiced avoidance. Think of it this way, by her not being willing to sit down and talk with you she is causing you pain. She then "wins" in the breakup arena.
First off, do not listen to the radio for a few weeks. Jus
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Ya, I remember that from my divorce. Pretty much any song I heard for a while brought my ex-wife back into my head and made me cry.
The only reason I let it drag on as long as I did (it wasn't a quick and easy breakup, it was a progression since July) was I didn't want to hurt her daughter. The worst feeling I got was when I called her place and her daughter answered, and she was all happy to hear me. But enough was enough. It may not be a clean break between