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Journal Hemi Rodner's Journal: Multiple selection 2

(A confused, messed up journal entry)
I have a more interesting blog in another site, but it's too monitored now so I'll write here, where almost no one would look.

In that other site, I posted a story telling how much I'm looking for a girlfriend. And 2 girls answered it.
I started talking with the first girl (let's call her Rini) and then the other girl (let's call her Rona) also answered my journal entry, and even ordered a site subscription for me (yes, you can pay in that site so other people will have a subscribed account. It's like ordering a drink in a pub for a girl you don't know).

So.. I had short and nice conversations with Rona in the last 2 days, and she said that I'll call her today. So I did, but she's not answering.. and I waited all day. So I resumed my communication with Rini by replying her last email, after a delay of 2 days (she didn't answer yet)

But what.. that's the mess. I thought of suspending the communication with Rini until I know what goes between me and Rona - because I don't want to date with 2 girls at the same time - it confuses me and puts me under pressure. So what if Rona answers me tomorrow and then Rini answers me too? I won't know who to choose!! I can't look at that logically, because if I go with one girl, I will be angry on myself for having to reject the other girl...

PS: I found a job! I will continue working until the university starts.

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  • You are under no obligation to consider the relationship exclusive until it is mutually decided upon. That's really what dating is (right?).

    An interesting observation: in my experience, the people most likely to offer pictures are those who you would least likely want to see.
    • You are under no obligation to consider the relationship exclusive until it is mutually decided upon. That's really what dating is (right?).

      I try to simplify it to myself like that, but it doesn't always work. Especially now, when I wrote that blog, which was full of self-pity. It doesn't feel right that girls has to fight on a guy like me. ;)

      An interesting observation: in my experience, the people most likely to offer pictures are those who you would least likely want to see.

      I didn't notice that..

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