Journal FortKnox's Journal: Current Ebay Fad: A Lesson Learned? 31
The next 'bride dress ebay fad of the week' thing:
parent selling PS2 for punishment. For the 'crimes' read the page.
It was rotten of them to sell the PS2, but the little bugger deserved some sort of punishment (13 isn't too old to spank, IMHO).
parent selling PS2 for punishment. For the 'crimes' read the page.
It was rotten of them to sell the PS2, but the little bugger deserved some sort of punishment (13 isn't too old to spank, IMHO).
weak (Score:1)
But what do I know, I'm just a dumb childless dude.
Re:weak (Score:3, Insightful)
They are disciplining him the wrong way, the way you train a dog or something.
Be a good kid, and you'll have this. Misbehave and I'll take it away.
Duh! Atleast from what I recall, my folks used to teach me what's right and what's wrong, and instilled a sense of moral values to hold on to. This is too stupid.
But in some sense, it serves the kid right, too
Re:weak (Score:1)
Re:weak (Score:2)
Second, does it sound like this kid needs more guidance? Getting dropped off at the skating rink (which isn't inherently negligent, if your
Re:weak (Score:2)
There was a generation once. It was labeled "the greatest generation" by a famous talking head. Although it is a gross oversimplification of the events that transpired, it could be said that this generation saved the world from one of the most evil forces to ever set foot on terran soil.
This generation suffered massive losses and hardships while making the sacrifice it needed to, insuring that freedom and, possibly, civlization could continue.
This generation eventually had children. Not wanting their offs
Re:weak (Score:1)
Yep; the monetary damage is not the point of what this kid did. He drank, underage, without his parents' permission. That he drank their overpriced champagne isn't the point. The bugle destruction is kind of a shame, but if the kid had any sort of respect for his parents and his parents' posessions, this wouldn't have happened.
Damn right
Re:weak (Score:2)
I realized when I was about 10 years old that spankings never hurt very much -- I was upset by the disapproval they reflected. I could tolerate MUCH more pain than a spanking inflicted (even multiple swats with the belt from my dad) without crying. So after that, spankings just made me feel more resentful and fueled my [pre-]adolescent disgust for my par
Re:weak (Score:1)
I'm just pro-parenting. If people would be PARENTS to their kids and not just send them off/sit them in front of the television/game console/computer. Spanking does work for some kids. I needed, I think, a total of 3. My oldest brother got one. But my 2nd oldest brother needed more.
We need more parents like you, who actually give a crap about parenting.
Re:weak (Score:2)
"Pro-parenting" is an *excellent* term for it!! Nicely put!
....Bethanie....
reminds me (Score:2)
Holy Crap (Score:2)
If I was the parent, I would call up the other kids parents (or visit them in person) and let them know what the kids did while I was out and why their kid is not allowed back in my house for X weeks. I would say that I don't care what they say, or whose kid is responsible. Even if my kid was the rotten brat, it would be better i
Re:Holy Crap (Score:1)
On the other hand, I bet the kids got more pleasure out of the champagne than the reneck parents would have. Anyway, Dom Perignon is way overpriced and overrated.
Re:Holy Crap (Score:2)
Regarding the DP, it is probably no better than most other champagnes. I mean serriously, champagne is practically sugared and carbonated water as it is... they can't do too much with it. I tend to view with a warry eye
Re:Holy Crap (Score:2)
If you were good, the odds are with you. That being said, of course, part of evolution and maturity is rebellion against your parents and the ways of old.
Re:Holy Crap (Score:2)
Don't I know it... I performed my stint as the prodigal son [biblegateway.com]
jason
Spank at 13? (Score:2)
hehe at 13 I was about 1/2 foot taller then my mom and dad, if they tried to spank me it would have been a funny sight
Re:Spank at 13? (Score:1)
Here-here. (Score:2)
There is something to say about beating respect into kids. Some just need it (I did). I'm glad he spanked me. When I was getting to 14, 15, 16yrs old and I tried to fight back, he'd wrestly my then gangly
Re:Here-here. (Score:1)
Second, he wasn't afraid to use a weapon. Yardstick, flyswatter, large belt.
Remember 2001: it wasn't the big monkeys who one, it was the mean little fuckers who pi
Re:Spank at 13? (Score:2)
Re:Spank at 13? (Score:1)
What are you doing online at 8:30 on a Saturday? Thought you were usually doing family type stuff.
BTW, have you played the Thief III demo or picked up the game yet? I'm anxiously awaiting your report.
Re:Spank at 13? (Score:2)
Thief3, at least the game, will have to be a while. Don't have the $40 to drop on it (I just found a 21" Trinitron monitor in perfect condition at a yard sale for $40... I can wait on Thief3 for this monster)
I'll check out the demo tomorrow night or something.
Re:Spank at 13? (Score:1)
You are teh SUXXOR! Look, I'll give you $45 for it.
Damn, all we get around here at yard sales are bulk purchases of used underwear:(
Demo was pretty fun. I enjoyed it a bit more than when I tried Thief II. Only problem is that I'd like a little interaction with people in the environment. Seemed like the only thing to do was avoid, stab, or pickpocket people:(
Hmm... (Score:1)
Re:Hmm... (Score:2)
Ahh (Score:2)
...And the cycle of a family with damaged boundaries continues: "You disrespect me and I'll show you! I'll disrespect you right back! Might makes right!"
Even money says the kid will go through two marriages (look at the role models!), slap his girlfriend and spend a few days in the
Re:Ahh (Score:2)
Re:Ahh (Score:2)
I don't know. I got the impression that more than just damaged boundaries, they're afraid of the kid for some reason. This stinks of lashing out in a last ditch attempt to "get back" at the kid (You disrespect me and I'll show you! I'll disrespect you right back! Might makes right!) and "teach" him a lesson. Except, without the conviction to show where the error occurred, it will just be an empty punishment that helps lead to the societal problems you suggested in the last paragraph. I picture two fat yuppi
Re:Ahh (Score:2)
Interesting; I didn't even think of that angle, but it makes sense. They neglect their kid (too much trouble...he's always asking questions or getting on my nerves!) or figure the TeeVee will raise him, then wonder why he acts out later.
Yeah. There are no winners here, and it isn't over by a long shot.
Re:Ahh (Score:2)
I agree that this 'ebay item' doesn't suggest good parenting skills. While I have no idea the complete back-story, what was presented doesn't put either parents OR child in any good light.
That said, I like the idea of publically SELLING a prized item as a form of punishment. Children tend not to make money and have no real sense of 'value' and as a result don't always respect property - particularly when it's no
Hmmm (Score:2)
I'm thinking I might need to come up with some stupid story for everything I sell on eBay. Then it can make the rounds and shoot the price up to a gajillion dollars.